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This site is no longer being updated. My boyfriend and I have had this conversation a grand total of three times over the course of our year, on-again-off-again relationship. The at the outset time, when we were 14, he asked me if I wanted en route for be his girlfriend, and after a few days of thoughtful teenage concern, I agreed. The second time, after we were 16 and one week into rekindling the flame after a six-month-long breakhe asked me if we were officially back together, and I said yes — immediately. I beam with him about it recently, wondering aloud if it was weird I was never the one to be sell for it up.